Have you ever talked to a nail sticking out of wood!
If you are truly honest, your answer will most probably be "yes" and I just bet it was in frustration?
When you talk to a nail it doesn't nod. It doesn't say "uh huh" , it doesn't overlap your sentences and it doesn't smile.... In Japan it is said " that the nail that stands out is hammered down."
A word of wisdom. With all due respect, a man, not ALL men but some... Listen like a nail.
This is how men listen to each other. They only nod or make a sound if they agree with each other, otherwise they stay still and silent ( bless the little darlings) A little advice?
Women want to take a hammer and get the nail ( that would be you) and whack you on the head while wailing at you "why aren't you listening"
A picture of a man listening to a woman is definitely a still picture A picture of a woman speaking is animated. Neither are good or bad, just different Now here's the good part! There is a solution guys!
When listening to your little woman nod a few times, maybe put in a few "uh huh" and "cooing" sounds, a few yeses, ( it won't mean you agree with her, it will just mean you are hearing her) Fancy that! She will love you for it And girls....... when you are listening to your man, you might want to cut the constant nodding and "uh huh" sounds and "yeses". He'll think you are interrupting !(imagine that) Practise just looking at him, he will think you're a good listener
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Warmest regards Deb Bow @Azur Coaching Mentoring & Accredited Trainings in NLP, EFT& Hypnosis Pty Ltd.