Have you ever talked to a nail sticking out of wood!
If you are truly honest, your answer will most probably be "yes" and I just bet it was in frustration?
When you talk to a nail it doesn't nod. It doesn't say "uh huh" , it doesn't overlap your sentences and it doesn't smile.... In Japan it is said " that the nail that stands out is hammered down."
A word of wisdom. With all due respect, a man, not ALL men but some... Listen like a nail.
This is how men listen to each other. They only nod or make a sound if they agree with each other, otherwise they stay still and silent ( bless the little darlings) A little advice?
Women want to take a hammer and get the nail ( that would be you) and whack you on the head while wailing at you "why aren't you listening"
A picture of a man listening to a woman is definitely a still picture A picture of a woman speaking is animated. Neither are good or bad, just different Now here's the good part! There is a solution guys!
When listening to your little woman nod a few times, maybe put in a few "uh huh" and "cooing" sounds, a few yeses, ( it won't mean you agree with her, it will just mean you are hearing her) Fancy that! She will love you for it And girls....... when you are listening to your man, you might want to cut the constant nodding and "uh huh" sounds and "yeses". He'll think you are interrupting !(imagine that) Practise just looking at him, he will think you're a good listener
Our next 2 day EFT training is 27-28th May 2017 Times: 9am -5pm Cost: $250 per day Where: 2/88 Palm beach Ave. Palm beach 4221 Morning & afternoon tea provided Bring your partner along, only if you're passionate about making a difference.....for a tiny $97 per day because we want you there! Ph: 0404 875 574 firstname.lastname@example.org
Warmest regards Deb Bow @Azur Coaching Mentoring & Accredited Trainings in NLP, EFT& Hypnosis Pty Ltd.
Its in the heat of the argument that we find out who we really are! The liar : "no, no it wasn't me! The Blamer: "well if he hadn't pushed me, if he had just listened to me ....." The Justifier: " I do EVERYTHING around here" The quitter: "I don't need this!" The sitter: "it will be ok, it'll all work out!" ......scary! Where did the love go?
Or just maybe you are The Doer, The mover, The Shifter The Shaker, The Clarifier, The Validator? If that's the case, you don't need me....... If you are still reading this, then there's a good chance you do need me...... In relating sometimes we have to send ripples out that can often turn into tidal waves to shake up our connection.
Often we get lazy, sit back, and coast along........ This is very dangerous! OR you might just simply not know what to do. In personal relationships most men are like Mosquitos in a Nudist colony...they know what to do but don't know where to start!
I want you to do something for me, would you?
I want you to think for a moment about the VALUES that you bought to this relationship/business.
Are those values still there? Are you still that person? Do you still maintain you body health, do you still maintain your independence, do you still get up, dress up and show up? Because this is the person he/ she fell in love with , employed. Or maybe, just maybe, you find yourself saying " I didn't sign up for this!" Who remembers that feeling?
Have you got lazy, needy, co-dependent? You may have even become so complacent you have begun accepting where your personal /business relating is at? I know people are yearning for more of an understanding of how to connect at a more personal level.
Our Core Promise to You!
Nothing works without you.... Come along and sit in the drivers seat of your own life and relationship, nothing works without your willingness to work it. Take the plunge, take that walk, ride that bike 🚴 take that vitamin pill. You only need want a better relationship & life to have one!
We promise to be there for you 100% you just have to show up wanting to make that change. It took years to get you to where you are now.....it need not take years to change those habitual patterns in your behaviour and in your relating. Just mere days! Come along to our next "Training" for a lifetime of life, passion, fun & enlightenment. Bring your partner for an added bonus
These 7 Day "Trainings" are where you experience being able to express what's deep inside all of us.
There will be powerful processes of being able to speak and listen in profound ways, to read body language in a profound and meaningful ways, and to get a deep and miraculous understanding of what others value and desire in relating to self and others You will learn more about you and the ones you love in 20 minutes, than most people know in a lifetime of being together.
A super boost to your communicating and relating both in your personal life and your business.
Relating is the lifeblood of life Our next 7 Day Training
When: May 2014 Times: 8.30am - 5pm (approximate times) Where: venue to follow Morning & afternoon tea provided.
What you will receive: * A jam packed manual full of little golden nuggets. * An Audio CD series full of the workshop learnings * 6months of monthly, one hour Coaching & Mentoring sessions, absolutely FREE! These bonuses are only available to those that pay in full before commencing your training with us We like to reward those that take action!
Why the free mentoring?
Because we want to ensure that you stay on track and continue to live and love the life you have created for yourself in these trainings .
Bring your partner along, only if you're passionate about making a difference.....for a fraction of the cost Why? Because we want you there!
REMEMBER....... Your relationship is no different than your business Both require the same skills: ......Validation & recognition .......Listening and communication skill. .......Reward and quality time ........Your continuing focus ........Healthy financial stability ........Fun and humour ........Sexual Attraction (Know your business really does have to have this! We all know People buy with their emotions ) Coca Cola knows it!
Give us a call now 0404875574 Looking forward to meeting with you in May 2014 Warmest regards Deborah Bow @Azur, EFT, Hypnosis, Coaching Mentoring & Accredited NLP Trainings Pty Ltd